Pope Francis sent a friendly letter to Fr. James Martin SJ about his ministry to gay Catholics, and now everyone is back to thinking Francis is on the side of LGBTQ+ people. Unfortunately, I don't think that's the case.
In the New York Times:
Pope Sends More Mixed Messages on L.G.B.T.Q. Rights
A leader in the Roman Catholic Church’s effort to reach out to L.G.B.T.Q. Catholics revealed on Sunday that Pope Francis had sent him a deeply encouraging note, capping an especially disorienting week on the Vatican’s attitude toward gay rights.
On Tuesday, the Vatican confirmed that it had tried to influence the affairs of the Italian state by expressing grave concerns about legislation currently in Parliament that increases protections for L.G.B.T.Q. people. And days later, the Vatican’s second in command insisted the church had nothing against gay rights, but was protecting itself from leaving the church’s core beliefs open to criminal charges of discrimination ...
It's nice to have hope, but the reality is ...
1) The Catholic church officially
teaches that LGBTQ+ people are "objectively disordered" and that "homosexual acts" are "intrinsically disordered" and "acts of grave depravity".
2) Pope Francis has done nothing to change this, and has continuously
reiterated his own belief that marriage for gay people is against God's plan, and that the adoption of children by gay couples is bad for kids. See his 2016
Amoris Laetitia in which he writes ...
There are absolutely no grounds for considering homosexual unions to be in any way similar or even remotely analogous to God’s plan for marriage and family (251).
3) And the Pope and the church continue to lobby against gay people's rights out in the greater world, working to doom mattiage equality, doom the adoption of children by gay couples, and doom married gay people as teachers in Catholic schools.
Still, Pope Francis adopts an "I'm your buddy" attitude towards gay people publically. Why? I don't know if it's that he wants to maintain his popular progressive image, or if it's that he doesn't want to alienate those uber-conservative gay men he hopes will join the priesthood.
Either way, the relationship between the Pope, the church, and gay people has made no concrete progress, though there are the occassional touchy-feely moments. If I was LGBTQ+ myself, that would not be good enough for me.